John, I know exactly what you ad tlnikag about. My mom has stomach issues because of her mess. She doesn't like to go places because she is afraid if she has to go she may not find a bathroom. She had the same thing happen to her but my brother was with her and he had to go I the ladies room with her. He did it though even though my mom was embarrassed. He told her he would do it again if he had to. Of course it's the same for me a role reversal. How many times she took us to the bathroom and changed our diapers, now I do it for he..